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Your agenda

By Duncan Rhyne (2010)

Your agenda is to have the best life possible. Now, as this sounds over-generalized, we can be more specific: You want the best sexual satisfaction possible while you are alive, and you want to end life with a gentle death.

During your life, when dealing with the above-named two preferences, you will have to spend much more time organizing the best sexual satisfaction possible than taking care of a gentle death.

Taking care of a gentle death primarily is a matter of avoiding situations in which there is a substantial risk for a non-gentle death. You don't want to work in a coalmine, and you don't want to be a soldier. You avoid, as good as you can, boarding aircraft, and you don't entrust your body and mind to surgeons when you can avoid it. You don't want to be resurrected when you are in a coma.

When organizing your gentle death, you don't need much advice. Common sense goes a long way.

It's a different story when organizing the best sexual satisfaction possible. On that topic, good advice makes a huge difference. This is the case because so much depends on where you live.

Of course, there also is a component of personal taste. For some men, to sleep with a different prostitute every day or night is their idea of a sexual paradise. For other men, it's to have a long-term singular relationship (though probably not an indefinite one). And for others, again, it's the ultimate goal to have several (or even many) love-based relationships with different young women.

It's the last group of men for whom our advice is most valuable. But not only for them is location crucial. For those frequenting prostitutes, there is a huge difference in the quality of service they can expect in different parts of the world. For them, generally speaking, South America and Southeast Asia provide much better value than North America or Europe.

But prostitutes are not our shoe, and beyond the above general assessments, we can provide little guidance for those who seek paradise in the arms, or other places, of prostitutes. Our expertise is genuine love relationships with young women of legal age.

The legal age specifications of most countries are, of course, a joke … and I can say that publicly because even though they are a joke, I nevertheless always respect them. But in some parts of the world, menarche occurs at age 11 or 12, and in other parts at 16 or 17. In some parts of the world, a 15-year old is a fully developed woman, and in other parts, a 20-year old may not yet be sexually initiated. There also is a wide margin in the stage of sexual development of young women of the same age even in the same places.

We have a preference for young women with limited previous sexual experience, but we happily let other men have those girls and young women who are sexually active on their own choosing before having reached the legal age of consent in their country.

We also think that those who extend the age question to the matching of sexual partners largely (and unfortunately) lack insight into aspects of sexual excitement. Our own experience throughout a sexually active life has been that a considerable age difference usually adds to the sexual excitement in a relationship. As a teenager, some of our most memorable sexual encounters were with women more than twice our age (and we definitely did not consider their age a minus point in any way), and being older now, we prefer girlfriends in their 20s (as would most men).

In the US, all relationships with a considerable age difference appear immoral, or are outright illegal, but in other parts of the world (Vive la France!), there is a better understanding of the charming aspects of such constellations.

And now for the practicalities: if you plan to pursue multiple love-based relationships, you will likely have to relocate. This is the case because most men are born into an ethnically coherent environment of which they are part. But by and large, to be of the same ethnicity as most other men at the same location works against one's prospects of easy multiple love relationships, especially with considerably younger women.

But relocate where?

We are on record for having analyzed that the most important decision any men in pursue of sexual adventures will have to make is choosing the right country, and in the right country, choosing the right place.

We have lived in Southeast Asia for more than 30 years, and in search of the best places, we have traveled all Southeast Asian, South Asian, and East Asian countries. We know places where Western (Caucasian) men rank top, places where African or African-American men rank top, places where Japanese men rank top, and the best places for Filipinos or Indonesians, or men of whatever ethnic background.

But it is not that most men would go to places where their sexual market value ranks best. Because they don't have definite advice. Most men who do relocate to Southeast Asia rather end up, more or less accidentally, at a place about which they have heard something positive from a rather dubious source, or from someone who anyway doesn't have the full picture (which to acquire requires years of traveling).

The service we can provide can be summarized in one sentence: Tell us your ethnic background, and give me a few parameters as to what you expect, and we can tell you, rather precisely, where you should go.

And, by the way, the recommendation we can give, is not just for a particular country. It extends to whether to choose a big city or a smaller town, and on whether it is better to operate out of a rented house or an apartment.

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