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Some countries just aren't right if your aim in life is to have optimal sex, even some Southeast Asian countries. The crux is: you don't know which ones are right, and which ones are not so right.

To find that out can be very expensive. You cannot judge the sexual prospects of a country by reading about it on the Internet. The point is: different authors have different ideas about optimal sex. When some write about "girls", they mean "hookers". And when other authors talk about the "friendliness" of the people of a country, they don't mean sex.

I can define what I am talking about: definitely not hookers; also not other women for whom locals have little inclination to compete. "Optimal sex", as I define it, is sex that is based on genuine sexual appetite of both participants (not the sex you get when the female partner is interested only in money); it is sex with local women for whom local men have a great deal of appetite (not with women of low sexual market value).

There is no other website that compares Asian countries from that perspective. I know it because I myself regularly try to get hints for free on the Internet... and such hints have led me to terribly wrong places.

I spend a lot of time researching where the best sex is available for me... and I can tell you: that is an expensive kind of research. It is expensive because you cannot be a tourist at a place that you research for sexual purposes. Ordinary local women at many places (especially places with a good number of tourists) do not consider tourists as sexual partners, and rightly so.

Only the hooker type of sex is available for tourists. But I am only interested in sex that is accompanied by aspects of love. No local woman with a little bit of insight will allow herself to fall in love with a tourist... so for the tourist, there won't be sex-love relationships, but only sex-money relationships.

To test the waters for sexual relationships that are based on love, you have to be able to refer to a permanent home. If you genuinely are a house-based or apartment-based foreign resident in a country, not just a hotel-based tourist, your prospects for local love relationships are much, much better.

I have rented "permanent" accommodation in almost all Southeast Asian countries... and yes, I'd call this my most expensive hobby, because occasionally, I use the facility only a week or two, and then come to the conclusion that, sorry: wrong place (once again). But I won't know before having tried being a genuine resident.

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Jan Garanoz
Juhu Tara Road, Juhu,
Mumbai - 400049 India
Last updated: February 16, 2010